New year, New Resolutions

I love a new year! It's so fresh starting again with reminders to set goals and improve yourself. I like setting goals. Whether I keep them is another story. Although, I have been reacquainted with a handy app/website that so far has been helping me keep on track. Any of you heard of coach.me? You can list the goals you want to work on and how many days a week you hope to accomplish that goal. Then you get to go in every day and tick them off. It's very satisfying seeing the bright green over your goal. :)

One of the things I resolved to work on this year is this blog. I mean, come on! I haven't posted since MAY. What? That's ridiculous. So, if you notice I haven't posted in a while, feel free to send me a friendly reminder. :) 

This year, I am also trying to be a better, more loving, patient mother. Two things are going to help me accomplish this. First, I have made a goal to (weekly, bi-weekly, monthly? I'm not really sure yet) create an activity bin. I find most of my moments of weakness as a mom are when my kids are bored and I am doing something else - and have no ideas what to direct them to. Enter Pinterest. A search of boredom busters turns up TONS of results. I have picked out a few to start with and I go to the dollar store tomorrow to get started on a few of the bins. Then, when boredom strikes, I will have something to pull out other than paint or moon sand, which are messy and stressful for me. Second, last conference, there was a great talk (found here) about ponderizing - 80% extended pondering and 20% memorizing. The idea is to choose a scripture each week and post it somewhere you will see it often. Every time you pass it, read it. Throughout the day, think about it. I am focusing - at least this month - on scriptures about patience. Since I put up this week's I have noticed I am better able to pause and think before reacting. Here's mine for this week:

James 1:19-20

19 Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:  

20 For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.

I'm excited to improve this year. If any of you have strategies for sticking with your goals, I'd love to hear them. :)